Privacy and Consent
As I’m sure you can understand, in this line of work, consent (from both parties) is key. So what is consent? Consent is FRIES (Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific).
But I’ve already booked you, is that not consent? No. And this applies to your consent and mine.
your consent
At any time during our booking, you are in control. This might sound obvious, but throughout our time together, my attention will be on you. I will ask before initiating sexual acts. As we continue, I may also specifically ask if you’re enjoying something. Consent is of the highest importance; I want nothing more than for you to feel safe and comfortable with me. While I have a list of services, what you’d like from our encounter is entirely up to you.
my consent
The list of services I offer can be considered my consent to: kissing, touching, mutual handjobs, oral sex and penis in vagina (PiV) intercourse with the use of a condom. Anything that sits beyond this requires further communication and consent. For example any form of BDSM play, for which ongoing consent and use of a safe word is paramount to our enjoyment.
If I feel unsafe at any point (in the case of non-consensual activity), I will immediately terminate the booking. Depending on the situation (e.g. violence or stealthing), I will also report the client to various SW sites, and possibly even police. For more on consent, please review the VIC and NSW sexual consent laws.
Above all, my goal is to create a safe and enjoyable experience for my clients. Respectful communication and ongoing consent is essential for this.
Privacy
What is agreed on and performed during, and after, a booking is completely and utterly confidential. You can rest assured that your decency and privacy is respected and continuously observed. In saying that, I will express explicitly that NO photography or filming is permitted during a booking without prior discussion or consent. Any violation of this will result in immediate termination of the booking with all funds retained.
